Beyond The Words

035 Unveiling the Laughter: A Journey of Authenticity and Joy with Shilamida

• Dimple Thakrar / Shilamida • Season 1 • Episode 35

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Welcome back to *Beyond the Words* with me, Dimple Thakrar. Today's episode is an absolute treat! I am joined by the delightful Shilamida. Strap in, because laughter is guaranteed!

Shilamida's vibrant energy and infectious laughter are sure to lift your spirits. We dive into her journey from triggering first impressions to deep connections and authenticity.

Key Takeaways:
1. Authenticity Overcomes Triggers: Despite initial triggers, meeting Shilamida in person revealed her authentic, joyous self, teaching the power of genuine connection.
   
2. Balancing Playfulness and Seriousness: Shilamida's journey highlights the challenge of balancing fun and seriousness, especially in online spaces, where authenticity often takes a backseat.
   
3. Embracing 50 Shades of Self: Shilamida's podcast, '50 Shades of Shilamida', showcases her evolution from solely focusing on gratitude to embracing life's complexities and sharing her multifaceted self.
   
4. Navigating Social Media Impact: From joyous moments to marital conflicts, Shilamida discusses the impact of her social media presence on family dynamics and the importance of privacy amidst vulnerability.
   
5. Service and Business: Shilamida emphasises her social media presence as a blend of service and business, highlighting the years of personal and professional growth behind her success.

Creating Joy Every Day:

  • Gratitude Practice: Starting the day with gratitude shifts perspectives and attracts positivity.
  • Connection Through Touch: Embracing physical touch fosters joy and connection.
  • Dance Like Nobody's Watching: Dance and music bring instant joy and liberation.
  • Random Acts of Kindness: Spreading love and blessings fosters joy and heals relationships.
  • Appreciating Small Moments: Finding gratitude in everyday experiences amplifies joy and abundance.

Shilamida's journey reminds us to embrace authenticity, find joy in simplicity, and navigate the online world with purpose and positivity. Tune in for laughter, wisdom, and inspiration!

Remember, life's journey is a blend of laughter and tears, but it's our authenticity that lights the way to true joy.

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Dimple Thakrar Resource Links:

Website: https://dimpleglobal.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dimple.thakrar
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dimplethakrar/

Beyond the Words EP35

[00:00:00] Dimple Thakrar: Hello and welcome back to Beyond the Words with me Dimple Thakrar. I have the most incredible guest today and I will guarantee you one thing, with this podcast today. You will laugh. You will laugh so hard. This beautiful woman I met through a mastermind with Melanie Ann Layer called The Channel.

[00:00:27] Dimple Thakrar: And I have to be honest, before I met her, before I met her in real, I met her online and I'll be really honest, she triggered me. She really did trigger me. And then I met her in real and I was like, why are you showing people who you really are? You are funny as hell. So without further ado, we're going to go deep into this conversation.

[00:00:51] Dimple Thakrar: I would love to introduce you to Shilamida. Welcome Shilamida! Woohoo! 

[00:00:58] Shilamida: So happy to be here. When I looked at my calendar this morning, I was like, yeah! Time to dimple 

[00:01:03] Dimple Thakrar: today. I love that. I'm so happy as well. We met online first. And like I said, you did trigger the hell out of me. I'm like, who the hell is this noisy woman that talks about stuff that I don't even understand?

[00:01:19] Dimple Thakrar: And I don't know why she's triggering me, but she is. And it's all on me, it's nothing to do with you. It's all on me, right? And then I met you, we met in Tulu at this random retreat where 17 or 19 women just showed up, right? And you just, your energy and frequency is so vibrant in life. And I remember having this conversation with you saying, how are you so different in life than online?

[00:01:52] Dimple Thakrar: And tell the audience, what did you say 

[00:01:54] Shilamida: back? The night that I got dimpled. And I say, always this funny. It's

[00:02:04] Shilamida: true, it's in my everyday life. I don't take life that seriously. I try to laugh all day long. I try to make people laugh. But online, on social media, I am very passionate about a lot of things that most people don't want to talk about. And because I'm so loud and so vocal, and there was a long time that I didn't know how to balance.

[00:02:32] Shilamida: The two, right? I didn't know how to have my playful, funny, fun side come out when I was talking about things that were so serious and so heavy and and then I met you and we just had the best time ever, which only happens by the way. It was like that entire year I had met so many people from the online space and every single time.

[00:02:58] Shilamida: It was the same message. It's wait a second, you're so different in person. And for me, I was like, wait, what do you mean? I'm different. I'm exactly the same. But the thing is that social media only sees the clippings of what I'm putting on there, right? I don't have a camera following me around 24 seven, which I wish I did, but I don't.

[00:03:23] Shilamida: And so you got what you got. And most people when they first meet me and they first get introduced to me, they just get. Triggered, because they might initially like me, but then I'll start talking about the things that people don't want to talk about, or I will, be me and just live life, which is a whole experience in its own, because, people don't like that either.

[00:03:50] Shilamida: There's only this short period of time that people get to see me And so I felt like I needed to put all the serious stuff out there instead of all the fun stuff out there And so most people get triggered by me Before they fall in love with me.

[00:04:06] Dimple Thakrar: It's so wild, right? And I remember saying to you just laugh more. Just like your laugh is so contagious. And I remember telling you, it reminded me of my mom and how my mom used to make me laugh. And I had the same feeling with you as I had with my mom, just joy. Pure, innocent joy in my heart.

[00:04:27] Dimple Thakrar: And I was like, Shalomina, that's your superpower. That is lead with that because then your message will land in such a beautiful way. And. I've loved watching you do that. I've loved it. Yeah. Tell us more about that. How much more fun is your online presence now? And the feet! Tell us about the feet!

[00:04:51] Shilamida: You really dimpled me that night. And so I went home and I changed my profile picture to one of me laughing in Tulum. And I started doing reels of just me laughing and I really soften my social media page. Like people were like, wait a second, like who is this person? And it's just, I started showing the me that you see when the camera goes off.

[00:05:19] Shilamida: And it's, which is, it's all me. And that's why I called my podcast 50 Shades of Shilamida because Prior to COVID, it was all rainbows and unicorns and gratitude. I lived in a bubble. I didn't want to talk about hard stuff. I didn't want to talk about politics. I didn't want to talk about any of that stuff.

[00:05:38] Shilamida: I just talked about gratitude. But then COVID happened. And as it started to unfold, I started getting angrier and more frustrated. And so I showed. All those parts of me and people are like, wait a minute. What happened to the goddess of gratitude? You can't be mad. You can't be angry. People would actually say that to me.

[00:06:01] Shilamida: You can't be like that. And I'm like, no, this is me. Like I haven't changed. I've been angry about all these things for a really long time. I just didn't talk about them. On my Facebook, so that was where I had a really hard time separating like where does this meet and where does this not and the realization that you're not seeing every single thing that I'm posting.

[00:06:27] Shilamida: So you're just coming in at your place of perception or trigger or wherever you are in your life and so I really started taking that into accountability. In the way that I'm posting, what I'm posting, what I'm leaving for the world to see, and it's really shitted everything. 

[00:06:48] Dimple Thakrar: Tell us more. How has that shifted?

[00:06:50] Dimple Thakrar: Because what I want the audience to understand is that it's not that you have to be happy all the time and making everybody laugh or that you have to be serious all the time and making everybody laugh. It was more the message of presenting your authentic self. So all 50 shades of you, right?

[00:07:08] Dimple Thakrar: It's that. It's because that authenticity is what pulled me towards you. It's that piece. It's not judging. And this is a key point I really want the audience to understand. It's not that we're judging Shilamina for not laughing enough or not being serious. It's not about that. It's about how can you present in the most authentic place so that you become a magnet, right?

[00:07:35] Dimple Thakrar: It's that connection piece. So talk to us a bit about how that shifted for you. When you. Really shifted and showed 50 shades 

[00:07:44] Shilamida: of Shilamida, right? I really had to sit with myself and I worked with a business strategist on this and what we really talked about is what do I want to get across to the world?

[00:07:55] Shilamida: What is my point, right? And showing up every day, what do I want the world to know about me? And so we worked on this for weeks and weeks, and it's not about a niche because you can't put me in a box. We know that I don't belong in a box, right? I'm so multifaceted and I want to talk about all these things, but it was.

[00:08:14] Shilamida: What is the goal? What is the goal? What do I want people to feel, to experience when they land on my page? And I focus on that. And I write a lot of posts that don't make their way to social media. Interesting, right? There is an archive, yes, because if I'm in a triggered state and I write the post, I know that if I post it, I'm going to magnetize a whole bunch of triggered people, right?

[00:08:44] Shilamida: And so I know that if I'm in a really happy place and I post a happy post, I'm going to attract people who are really happy. And so in knowing that, I really have to think twice about what I'm posting, because I know that I'm an influencer. I know that my words have power. I know that when I recommend something, people go and they buy it.

[00:09:11] Shilamida: And so I take that very seriously at this point in my life. And my core value is fun. I just want everybody to have fun. We missed the entire assignment of why we're alive. We do. We don't get it. We, this whole remembering, right? Like this whole year of remembering like who I am and wait, I'm happy.

[00:09:37] Shilamida: I'm supposed to be happy. Like we came here to be happy. Like this life experience. It's every time I turn around and being pounded, right? Who hates me? Who doesn't like me? Who's triggered by me? Who's this? Who's that? And it's. But I'm still happy. I'm still living life. I'm still able to enjoy every moment because none of it is about me.

[00:09:59] Dimple Thakrar: So that's so powerful. When we can really come from a place of knowing that really people's response is not about you. It's never about you. It's always about them, which is why I was saying at the beginning that I was triggered by you. I didn't say you triggered me. I was triggered by you. Because it's about me, not 

[00:10:18] Shilamida: you.

[00:10:20] Shilamida: And you know what was so beautiful, Dimple, is you have reached out to me, and we set up a one to one call before, and that call was so powerful for me. The things that you had said to me, your wisdom, I admire you so much. Before the online world, I already knew who Dimple was, from, Global win or something there.

[00:10:39] Shilamida: There was a time that you and I were in New York City together. We've known each other for a while in the online space. Yes, but allowing, what a beautiful friendship we have now and to think. That, in the beginning, those triggers, it separated us, right? It was something that really could have been like, I'm not going to follow this girl.

[00:11:03] Shilamida: And it's really funny is the people who are really my true friends right now, every single one of them, it started the same way. They were triggered and they stuck around. They stuck around through the trigger and then once they got to know me, it was like let's work through this together because I'm so reasonable and I'm so aware and I'm so expanded like if I'm triggering you, let's talk it through because maybe there's an opportunity for me to grow too.

[00:11:34] Shilamida: Yeah, 

[00:11:35] Dimple Thakrar: absolutely. It's always a co creation. Always a co creation. And for me, certainly meeting you, I felt joy. I felt joy in my heart and this whole piece on remembrance, I'd forgotten how to feel joy. I'd forgotten that it was my birthright to have fun, right? It's my birthright to have fun. It's everybody's birthright to have fun, so I highly recommend that if there are moments in your life where you are really struggling to find the fun and struggling to find the joy, go look at Some of Shilamida reels, honestly. Just go and enjoy the fun. And that doesn't mean to say that behind the scenes there aren't things that are difficult in our lives, there are.

[00:12:21] Dimple Thakrar: And I know for sure there have been for Shilamida and also, being so vulnerable and so exposed on social media has its impact on our families. It really does. We're both raising children. We're both raising young adults that have, and husbands that You know, don't want everything on social media, right?

[00:12:43] Dimple Thakrar: Talk to us a bit about that, Shilamida. 

[00:12:45] Shilamida: Wow. I'm going to share, I'm going to share a story with you that I contemplated posting, but I haven't yet because you'll understand why. It was my one year anniversary this past weekend and on social media, I portray this beautiful loving relationship, my soulmate, which is all true.

[00:13:06] Shilamida: Everything is so true. But, you don't put every fight, every argument, every everything on social media. And so on Saturday, my husband and I got into a very big argument. And I couldn't stand the sight of him. And we happened to be on vacation and we had this beautiful five star dinner ready. And I started getting ready and he's are we going to dinner together?

[00:13:33] Shilamida: And I'm like we could go to dinner and one of us will sit at the bar. He was like, I'm not sitting in the same restaurant with you and not sitting at the table with you. So I contemplated, I really wanted to fix things. And then he said something and I was like, I'm not going to dinner with you. I'm going to spend dinner by myself tonight.

[00:13:53] Shilamida: And so I took myself out to our beautiful anniversary dinner and instead of wearing all white as I had planned, I wore black. I was mourning the company that I wasn't in. And I am Currently in yoga teacher training. And so I brought my Yama's and Niyama's book with me and I have these girlfriends that we have this text chain going.

[00:14:16] Shilamida: And so I messaged them and I'm like, I'm going to have my anniversary date with you guys. I'm with this book and it was so perfect and it was exactly what I needed. And so I've debated over the last few days to tell this story. Because I want people to understand that even in the most beautiful love of all time, everything that you see, every word that I say, everything that I feel is all true.

[00:14:45] Shilamida: But we fight, and we can't stand each other sometimes, and we don't want to be around each other. And it's all real, right? This is all real life, but in the world of social media, we get stuck in look at them, look at their love. They're so perfect. Nothing ever goes wrong for them, right? And if only they knew.

[00:15:09] Dimple Thakrar: Yeah, and sometimes you don't want to share it all when you're going through it in that moment. You've got the right to have privacy of your own mind because, the reason I know you and I both share on social media is to create impact and change for people. That's the whole point. It takes so much effort and energy.

[00:15:31] Dimple Thakrar: To share on social media, 

[00:15:34] Shilamida: right? And that's what people really don't understand is that we're doing it from a place of service Yeah, i'm sharing from a place of service. I was away this weekend I shared my cabanas every single day because I know somebody is watching who's manifesting because of my Posts.

[00:15:53] Shilamida: And so on the last day I said, are you taking notes on the cabanas? Did you put it on your vision board? Everything leads them to somewhere. I'm not doing it because I'm bragging. I don't need to post to brag. I live a very braggadocious life. I don't need to do that. I do it from a place of service.

[00:16:13] Shilamida: I do it because if I didn't see it, I wouldn't be living it. So if somebody didn't show me what was possible, then I would be living a very lonely, poor life. I used to be a single mom on food stamps. I didn't think there was enough money in the world for me to be a wealthy woman. So it took a lot to get to where I am now.

[00:16:34] Shilamida: And that's 

[00:16:34] Dimple Thakrar: the piece, right? People sometimes presume that they see this luxurious life and how easy it is for you and the same for me. And there's no judgment there because I have been that woman that's I've always witnessed other women when I was going through it going it's easy for her.

[00:16:51] Dimple Thakrar: And, there's something else that I want to share as well. And to pick up on what you said that you, we do it from a place of service and let's be real. We're also businesswomen. We are also businesswomen, right? So yes, we do it from a place of service and value. And also we do it from a place of building our businesses.

[00:17:11] Dimple Thakrar: So full transparency. I make a very healthy living of showing up on social media so that I can serve people at a higher level, so that I can I can give and provide people with a service that they get to invest in themselves. 

[00:17:28] Shilamida: Yeah, but the difference is that somebody can go get a job making a six figure robust salary and they don't need to talk about their life at all.

[00:17:37] Shilamida: No one has to know anything that happens behind their closed doors. But we've chosen to make a career out of just being. Me, like I just want everybody to know and understand like you get to be you and you get to be paid for being you. But 

[00:17:57] Dimple Thakrar: also let me just give you, you also get your you because of the work you put in.

[00:18:03] Dimple Thakrar: So let's just get that clear, right? You haven't just showed up from food stamps to this and not put any work in. Sorry. I just wanted to get that point. 

[00:18:13] Shilamida: Really. It is a lot of work. And I actually I love that you actually said that because the very first coach that I hired, he actually said to me to take the word work out of all of my marketing.

[00:18:25] Shilamida: And recently, all I want to do is talk about work because people really think that. Oh, Shilamida took a bath. She just made 500 bucks, right? No, it wasn't the fact that I took the bath. There was a lot of systems in place. There were things in the background. There was courses that were, like, right? It's all of the work has accumulated.

[00:18:48] Shilamida: You're watching me at 44 years old. I started my spiritual journey when I was 23. I'm 21 years into evolution and expansion. It's like when you're listening to my wisdom, this isn't because like last year I decided, poof, I'm going to show up one day. This is years and years of, coming into the whole family thing, I'm having some conflict with one of my children right now because of the whole social media presence. And my husband said to my son, he said, do you think I like it? He's sometimes people come into my office. My husband has a business where he has 175 employees.

[00:19:28] Shilamida: And I post a picture of myself half naked and people come in and they're like, Your wife is on social media. And he'll go through and he'll explain the lesson to them. I, I don't just post pictures of myself half naked for no reason. There is like a very powerful message that's inside of there.

[00:19:50] Shilamida: And guess what? It got your attention. You stopped 

[00:19:53] Dimple Thakrar: it started a conversation and he was able to give that conversation to whoever it was that brought it in. And it requires bravery and vulnerability to do what you do. 

[00:20:05] Shilamida: Yeah, a lot. It's not easy. This, being in the online space like this, especially now, there's so much noise.

[00:20:13] Shilamida: You want to be seen you want to be noticed you want people to be able to benefit off of you how do you stand out? How do you make yourself seen and you know how we started this conversation a lot of it has to do with the magnetism it's like I stopped focusing on the conversations, you know I took your conversation with me very seriously because dimple and I live in two different countries Right?

[00:20:38] Shilamida: So the things that is happening in my world right now, Dimple has no idea. There's no comprehension. And so I didn't really understand that before. I get that now. I get that I have a global audience. And what's happening in Montville, New Jersey is not like known in other parts of the world. So it's really important to understand who's watching you, who's on your social media.

[00:21:06] Shilamida: If you're new to the game, you might have a lot of family on there. In the beginning, it was so hard to post even now, my family has stopped saying things to me until recently. It almost got to a point where I didn't think that they were watching anymore until recently when somebody decided to unload everything they've been watching and judging me for over the years.

[00:21:32] Shilamida: And one of the best things I ever heard along this journey is what other people think of you is none of your business. And I've ingrained that into me because as soon as I hear it, as soon as someone tells me how they feel about me, it just rips my heart out. And I know there's over 6, 000 people watching my Facebook on a regular basis.

[00:21:56] Shilamida: I know half of those people hate me. I know it, but I don't focus on them. Focus on the one person that is going to benefit from what I have to say today. 

[00:22:08] Dimple Thakrar: I love that. I love that so much. So as we almost complete now, what I'd love for you to do, Shilamina, is just share with me just five ways that you create joy in your life.

[00:22:22] Dimple Thakrar: I just love the way you belly laugh like you proper and the reason it reminded me of my mom is because my mom used to proper, like when she would laugh like nobody's watching and she didn't care if they were, and so I would love for you to gift the audience today.

[00:22:44] Dimple Thakrar: Five ways that you create joy, laughter, freedom in your life and that are simple things that anybody can do every day. 

[00:22:54] Shilamida: Okay, let's think about this. Number one is gratitude. We always have to start with gratitude. Gratitude always shifts the situation. If it's the worst thing and you can find something to be grateful for and you can hold onto that, you will be able to find pockets of joy.

[00:23:10] Shilamida: Every single morning when I wake up now, I start my day with gratitude. And number two, not only do I start my day with gratitude, but I thank all of the powers above me. So I thank God, I thank source, I thank the angels, I thank my guides. And what has started happening is I've started waking up before my alarm clock goes off and I'm not a morning person.

[00:23:36] Shilamida: This is like there's nothing more annoying than the sound of an alarm clock. And so the connection that I have created, they would like for me to rise in gratitude. And so that brings a lot of joy on my face when I'm able to start the day without an alarm and starting the day with gratitude, it's a game changer.

[00:24:00] Shilamida: Hugs. Physical touch. I know my dimples love languages touch. I wish I could squeeze it right now. But hugs bring me instant joy. Whether it's my children, my husband, I really try to You know, embrace and touch. And that's really important for me. I don't love touching the rest of the world. So if you're like, Oh, that didn't do it for you, just find one person that you can have a connection, even if it's like going for a massage, or like just having physical human contact, especially if you haven't had it in a while, that will bring a lot of joy.

[00:24:38] Shilamida: Okay. Let's think dancing. I love to dance, throw on some music, maybe sing out loud. That always brings me a lot of joy. And something that I do in my gratitude challenge is I love to send out love and blessings. And I love to randomly just open up my phone and scroll. Sometimes I'll do it in my phone book.

[00:24:59] Shilamida: Sometimes I'll do it on Facebook and I'll just start to scroll and wherever it lands. I will send a message. Sometimes it's somebody that I haven't spoken to in a really long time and there's a lot of discomfort, right? So it's a lot of exercises are being worked out in one. You will be surprised.

[00:25:18] Shilamida: How much joy you bring into your world by sending someone, Hey, thinking about you, sending you love and blessings today. It's the most beautiful exercise of all time. And if there's a lot of forgiveness, or there's a lot of resentment, or there's a lot of that stuff that you're holding on to, you'll be able to start cutting the cords along the way.

[00:25:39] Shilamida: So good. 

[00:25:40] Dimple Thakrar: Was that five? How many was that? Yeah. I'm like, more, give me more. 

[00:25:45] Shilamida: All interweaved. 

[00:25:48] Dimple Thakrar: I love that. I love that so much. And the one thing that I really admire in you that I, it really stood out for me, Shalameena, and that is when you say you give gratitude, spend some time with this woman. She's the queen of gratitude.

[00:26:04] Dimple Thakrar: She can find gratitude in the smallest things. Like the smallest things that you would never even consider. So sometimes when people say, Oh, give gratitude every morning, they're like, I can't think of anything to give gratitude. They're thinking of big things, right? Even gratitude for the softness of the sheets, even gratitude, right?

[00:26:23] Dimple Thakrar: For the shelter that we have, even gratitude for the fact that it's cold outside, but I'm warm inside. It's the small things because in that space of gratitude, we're in the, we're in the space and frequency of receivership, right? So there's a, there's method and science to this madness, right?

[00:26:44] Dimple Thakrar: It actually works, 

[00:26:46] Shilamida: right? If we think about everything around us everything is a thought. Somebody thought about creating this sweater. Someone thought about cutting the shoulders out. Someone thought about creating this necklace, right? So it's all in that thought process. So when we're grateful, I'm grateful for my beautiful necklace.

[00:27:03] Shilamida: I'm grateful that I am adorned in diamonds. I'm grateful of the energy that it brings me when I wear these beautiful things. I am grateful that I receive more and more, right? I can just go, I could just take the energy and we could go on a magical It's 

[00:27:18] Dimple Thakrar: so fun. Honestly, I've never seen anybody do gratitude with such like joy and sexiness and the whole thing about it.

[00:27:29] Dimple Thakrar: So I love that 

[00:27:30] Shilamida: about you. There was a time, like you said, that I really, I didn't know what to be grateful for when I was on food stamps and I was overweight and I thought my life was so miserable. And I really, I would wake up every day and I'd be like, I don't have anything to be grateful for. And it's just not true.

[00:27:48] Shilamida: There's just so many. Just looking at you right now, there's so many things I could be grateful for in this moment that, like what it takes to create a moment in time. We really break it down and oh, we can contemplate on this for hours. Sorry coach. 

[00:28:03] Dimple Thakrar: Just another method of Such a profound way of being present.

[00:28:06] Dimple Thakrar: It's just a profound way of being present in the moment. Thank you so much. Where can people find you, Shilomina? Where can they find you? 

[00:28:15] Shilamida: It is my pleasure. You can find me all over the internet. If you spell my name correctly, it's S H I L A M I D A. I have shillameda. com so you can go check that out.

[00:28:27] Shilamida: On Instagram, I hang out at 50 Shades of Shilamida with the number 50. I also have a YouTube if you want to go catch my show. I'm the goddess of gratitude also on Instagram. If you want to go stalk my earlier years, you can go check it out there. And I'm. Facebook is my main source hub and I like to hang out on Pinterest too because I'm the party queen.

[00:28:49] Shilamida: Oh 

[00:28:50] Dimple Thakrar: my god, if you have any Wanting an inspiration about parties, go check out Shilamida's ideas. It's off the frigging scale, off the scale. And the image that comes to mind is your matching bathing suits when you're beloved. 

[00:29:07] Shilamida: So we'll leave that. Is the best sport of all time. Oh my god. 

[00:29:13] Dimple Thakrar: The fancy dress.

[00:29:15] Dimple Thakrar: I 

[00:29:17] Shilamida: put him in and now he's so funny, like before we get dressed, he's does this match what you're wearing? He knows not even to get dressed now, it's the best, I love it. So 

[00:29:27] Dimple Thakrar: funny. Thank you so much for joining. This is the final question that I always ask all my guests. And I would love to ask you today, which is if you could give somebody some advice or wisdom or maybe you've been gifted this advice or wisdom on what would you say to somebody that goes beyond the words?

[00:29:47] Shilamida: What would I say to someone that goes beyond the words? What 

[00:29:53] Dimple Thakrar: advice, what wisdom 

[00:29:54] Shilamida: would you give? So energy is everything. And energy speaks before our words. And this is the most perfect question to end this show because that's how we met, right? You felt me in person in a way that you never felt me on the internet.

[00:30:16] Shilamida: And so my energy spoke without me needing to speak. And then everything just was perfect from there on. So my greatest advice is just fall in love with yourself. Because if you fall in love with yourself, then you exude that love and you magnetize more love. And so it really starts with self. Love that. 

[00:30:40] Dimple Thakrar: I just got whole goosebumps because I felt your energy.

[00:30:43] Dimple Thakrar: See that? So cool. Thank you so much for joining us today. So Without further ado, I am so grateful to the audience for sharing your space and time and energy with Shilamida and myself Dimple Thakrar today. My deepest gratitude. Take care and 

[00:31:03] Shilamida: God bless.

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Dimple Thakrar

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Jo Day

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Shilamida

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