Beyond The Words

038 Unlocking Grounded Masculinity: A Journey of Relationships and Growth with Peter King

• Dimple Thakrar / Peter King • Season 1 • Episode 38

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Dimple Thakrar extends a warm welcome to listeners, introducing a special guest, Peter King, whom she met in the Tony Robbins community. She describes Peter as a beacon of mature masculinity and a caring individual who deeply impacts those around him.

Summary:
Dimple and Peter delve into the concept of grounded masculinity and its profound impact on embracing femininity. They explore personal journeys, emphasizing self-validation and understanding masculine-feminine dynamics. The conversation navigates through relationship challenges, highlighting alignment, growth, and spiritual truth. Practical strategies for maintaining groundedness and nurturing connections are discussed, along with the importance of clarity and confidence in leadership.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Embrace grounded masculinity to foster healthy relationships.
  2. Navigate relationship challenges with alignment and growth.
  3. Practice self-awareness and nurture connections for grounded living.

Get ready to explore the transformative power of love and truth in fostering deeper connections and personal growth.

Peter King Resource Links:
Website: https://impactnow.com/about/
Podcast: https://impactnow.com/podcast/

Dimple Thakrar Resource Links:

Website: https://dimpleglobal.com/
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dimplethakrar/

Beyond the Words EP38

 

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[00:00:00] Dimple Thakrar: Hello and welcome everybody back to Beyond the Words with me Dimple Thakra. Today I have the most incredible gentleman, honestly, this beautiful man. I met him in the Tony Robbins world and all I can say is that every time I spend time with this beautiful man, I feel taken care of. I feel so safe, so seen.

[00:00:28] Dimple Thakrar: And so I get to relax in my feminine. So it says a lot about who he is and how he presents himself. So without further ado, I'd love to introduce you all to Peter King. Wow. Hello, Peter. Dimple, 

[00:00:44] Peter King: that was such a beautiful introduction. That really touched my heart. I'm That's one of the most That's one of the highest compliments I feel like I can receive from a woman and coming from you and knowing your depth of understanding of relationships.

[00:00:57] Peter King: That really means a lot. Thank you. 

[00:00:59] Dimple Thakrar: My absolute pleasure. And I, it's interesting that every time I have a guest on, I always speak from the heart. I always speak from what I truly feel. And honestly, that's how I truly feel about you. Every single time, I've spent a lifetime struggling with asking for help and asking for support and It was interesting.

[00:01:21] Dimple Thakrar: I was messaging you today, and I just want you to know how comfortable I felt asking you for help and support And that's a testament to you and the beautiful Masculine, healthy, mature, masculine that you are. So I would love people to understand that. I would love your take on, because we talk about masculine and feminine, and both you and I talk about it all the time.

[00:01:51] Dimple Thakrar: What I love about the way you do it is, there is a beautiful elegance, it's not an aggressive approach. masculine. It's a real grounded. So can you talk to us a little bit about how you do that and how you've got to this space? 

[00:02:07] Peter King: That's a wonderful question. Thank you. I feel very touched, Dimple, right out of the gate again.

[00:02:12] Peter King: So thank you for that. That is, it's such a good question. To me, the grounded element. of the masculine is the masculine. It's providing the containership for the feminine. And it has been quite a journey for myself to have found that within myself. For those that don't know me, I grew up in a very wonderful household.

[00:02:34] Peter King: I had A mother that loved me unconditionally was a very traditional mother. She was at all of our sports games. I grew up here in the U. S., so we focused a lot on sports as young boys. And so she was at every event. I had four other siblings. She was at all of their events. She made You know, lunches for his every day, home cooked meals for dinners.

[00:02:53] Peter King: She really was the epitome of an excellent mother. She was imperfect, of course, but she really showed up in a beautiful way. My father, on the other hand, worked a lot. I very rarely saw him growing up, so I didn't really have a masculine father presence in my life growing up. It wasn't until I got into high school that his business shifted a little bit.

[00:03:17] Peter King: We moved states and he was around the house a little bit more. And at that point, I'd already grown up and I didn't have a deeper connection with him. But I remember one time my younger brother had this very jovial, very open relationship with him. And I, Like took me back a little bit. I was like, I don't have that same relationship with my father.

[00:03:38] Peter King: Very long story short, many years later when I was 30, my mother passed on and about 18 months after that, my father ended up coming out of the closet. And letting us know that he was gay, and it was a very trivial point, pivotal point, I should say, in my own journey but it was really when I, at that point, dove deep into the masculinity masculine feminine dynamics, what did I, what was I missing, perhaps by having, A, a father that was homosexual, but at the same time, a father that just wasn't the Physically there or emotionally there.

[00:04:10] Peter King: He wasn't necessarily present. And I had just had a son. I had a son and a daughter. And so a lot was going on in my mind about what it meant to be a good father, a good man, good husband. At the time I was having marriage issues. My then wife and I ended up breaking up and going our separate ways. But we also.

[00:04:29] Peter King: In a same weird way, both doubled down and invested back into the relationship. Anyway, this is a very long winded answer to your question, but it was at that point in time that I got really, I went really deep into the masculine to better understand what that groundedness is. And I discovered a thing called validation.

[00:04:46] Peter King: And all of a sudden I realized men are walking around with one of two questions in their mind. They're either on the, I don't feel invalidated side of the line, the emotional line, if you will, or I know who I am. I might be imperfect, but I am on firm ground in my own psyche. And I call that self, that self validation line, I call it the Vorto Because it's like this headwind that you're constantly subconsciously facing in life until you do that deeper work to self validate.

[00:05:14] Peter King: So there's a whole nother story around that, but I'll, I could probably talk for the next 20 minutes cause I'm a podcaster too. So we're good at talking. 

[00:05:21] Dimple Thakrar: No way. Tell us what your podcast is called. Remind, remind my audience if they don't know 

[00:05:26] Peter King: already. It's called Wired for Impact. I talk to all different types of experts and creators and entrepreneurs, but all have a sense of how do I make a difference in the world?

[00:05:37] Peter King: So I love talking to passionate people in their and how they're creating a positive impact. So I've got people from entrepreneurs, billionaires to Delta force, special forces operators to relationship experts like yourself. So it's a real pleasure to host that. 

[00:05:54] Dimple Thakrar: I've loved being gone. I have absolutely loved being on your podcast.

[00:05:59] Dimple Thakrar: There's something that came through for me when you were speaking and something that we have very. similar in common is that it took for us to go through a really dark place in our relationships for us to realize that there was work to be done, right? And often, and for me, I'm still in the marriage for you.

[00:06:22] Dimple Thakrar: It's the outcome is irrelevant of what happens with the relationship. What's relevant is very much about it's almost like you have to have that pain in order to, Decide that you need to learn more and do more. So can you expand on that? Cause I know you coach men and women in the relationship space.

[00:06:38] Dimple Thakrar: So 

[00:06:39] Peter King: what is it? Yeah, sorry. Go ahead.

[00:06:42] Dimple Thakrar: No, please 

[00:06:43] Peter King: continue. I, we, you and I met in the Tony Robbins community. And one of the things that you hear often is that life isn't happening to you. It's happening for you. And that's such a brilliant Perspective shift, because when you're in those times of suffering and frustration, you feel very isolated.

[00:06:59] Peter King: You feel like you have no resources energetically. You feel tapped out. So when somebody comes to you and especially like a coach, Oh let's rethink it this way. It's I have nothing left to give. You're asking me to do more. And what's so ironic is often it's not that we're needing to do more.

[00:07:14] Peter King: It's often that we're uncalibrated to our alignment. This is how I describe it. And I was spiritually off. And in a way though, my ex and I were bringing out that which needed to be healed and addressed. And a lot of relationships get into that space and they don't necessarily know that they were perfectly brought together.

[00:07:37] Peter King: They've been perfectly designed to tease out the very wounding and the very Troubled things that need to be healed and it takes a special type of awareness and maturity to get to a place where the relationship and the couple can come together with eyes open, with consciousness and realize, hey, I might be bringing my wounding to the table and the triggering to the table, but we're here to love and support each other through that.

[00:07:59] Peter King: And it was difficult for it. Me and my relationship at the time, cause we were at different places. I was on a journey of growth as I mentioned, having lost my mother, being very much more aware of my relationship with my father, better understanding myself. And that put me on a, an accelerated trajectory because I.

[00:08:18] Peter King: I'm very, this is very much my world of trying to understand self and trying to understand other people. And she wasn't there yet. She was facing some of her own stuff. And so anyway, long story short, I forget exactly the nature of the question. I know you were talking about going through that dark periods and maybe why that's necessary.

[00:08:37] Peter King: I feel it's a spiritual thing. Yeah, to pull us into a higher calling. 

[00:08:41] Dimple Thakrar: Love that. I love the way that you spoke about alignment because I believe the same. I believe that when you operate from misalignment, you magnetize a partner that is misaligned and therefore your greatest teacher. Because it just hurts.

[00:09:00] Dimple Thakrar: Yes. There's no two ways about it. You are being called to a higher standard whether you like it or not. Yes. And you get to choose actually, you get to choose whether you walk through the fire, quite literally, with Tony Robbins and fire walking. Or you burn.

[00:09:17] Peter King: And sometimes you need to burn and that's a hard one to swallow. If I, if you don't mind me asking you, when do you tell your clients that it's time to go or when would they know that it's time to go? That's a, I feel like that's a hard one for people to wrap their heads around 

[00:09:32] Dimple Thakrar: sometimes.

[00:09:33] Dimple Thakrar: It's so fascinating because It's wild that you've asked that because we were, it was interesting just before you came on my producer and I were talking about this exact same thing, exactly the same question. And so for me certainly, and I have asked this question of myself many times in my relationship, just because I've been married 28 years doesn't mean that I still don't have the same challenges and struggles.

[00:09:58] Dimple Thakrar: We do. Very much and, every time I wonder whether I'm with the one, I ask myself, have I done everything that I think I can do in order to make that decision? Because if I am in full alignment with me and I'm magnetizing a mess, then I'm not with the one, right? But if I'm in full alignment. And he shows up in alignment that is a match for me, then I'm with the one.

[00:10:29] Dimple Thakrar: So the real question is, am I doing everything in alignment? And the answer is no for me a lot of the time. I still have to work on my screaming banshee woman that's tired and menopausal. Because I don't want to be with me then. So no wonder he doesn't.

[00:10:47] Dimple Thakrar: And for me, that's always the question. I don't know for you, Peter. I'm going to ask you the same question back. What do you say to your clients? 

[00:10:56] Peter King: I struggled with that. I never identified with a man that would get a divorce. It was the farthest thing in my And my own psyche and it took me literally a number of years to get to that point where I made that decision that I needed to move on and I had two young kids at the time.

[00:11:13] Peter King: It was literally it was me walking into my deepest fear which is a weird. Thing to say, and it's it's very nuanced and I get a lot of judgment, understandably from people who may not have walked in my shoes and understand that situation, but to answer the question for me, it was very spiritual.

[00:11:30] Peter King: It was a very deeper relationship with a higher power and seeking guidance. And the message that I consistently got back was you need to go and that. Everybody in my circle, everybody in my circle, including Tony Robbins told me that I needed to stay literally we were at a relationship, that same relationships program that that you've shared your story on.

[00:11:51] Peter King: I was with Tony and he said some things and I. Pulled them aside between the intermission. I said, Tony, you need to give me your input. So anyway, everybody in my life at the time was telling me that I need to work it out, that a real man stays. They were hitting all my buttons. And I took a walk on when we were out there in Maui, I went on the beach.

[00:12:10] Peter King: And of course we got out late cause it's Tony Robbins. So it was probably three in the morning and I was walking along the beach. And I remember thinking who am I letting lead my relationship? Is it? Is it my siblings? Is it my is it Tony Robbins? Is it my spiritual, counselors? Who is it?

[00:12:27] Peter King: If it's not God, if I'm not putting God first, who's really leading my relationship? And I thought, you know what? Nobody is on my side right now. Nobody's on my team, except, but I need to be on. on team God, which is cliche or stupid, but and it really was something that, that to me goes back to your first question about groundedness too.

[00:12:47] Peter King: I find a lot of groundedness in that direction. 

[00:12:50] Dimple Thakrar: Yeah. I love what you're speaking about because you, to me, what's coming through is spiritual alignment. Spiritual alignment. There's a difference between physical alignment and spiritual alignment. And it sounds as though you were actually listening to the whispers of your spiritual alignment.

[00:13:07] Dimple Thakrar: Yes. And that is acting in alignment. And that's why I say, have you done everything you can, not for the relationship, for you. Are you showing up fully aligned for you? I love the courage that it took for you to act on your spiritual alignment. Thank you. 

[00:13:26] Peter King: It was tough. I honor you for that. It was tough.

[00:13:29] Peter King: Thank you. 

[00:13:31] Dimple Thakrar: And that, to me, is the essence of a grounded man. Because if he can go against what everybody says, including Tony Robbins, the expert, to know that his Spiritual alignment is guiding him and he trusts. Beautiful. 

[00:13:50] Peter King: Thank you. Yeah. 

[00:13:51] Dimple Thakrar: Yeah. I really honor you. That, for me, is a warrior.

[00:13:54] Dimple Thakrar: A true warrior. And that is magnetic. It pulls the feminine towards you. And I want the viewers to understand, I want the audience to understand, not in a sexual way, in a very much help me describe it, Peter, what am I, help 

[00:14:11] Peter King: me find the word. I think of it as wholeness. And I believe that we, masculine and feminine energy, naturally attracts, there's that, of course I'm sure you've talked multiple times about polarization, and I think that when we're in our spiritual alignment, as a man who identifies with masculine energy and a spouse that was identifying with feminine energy.

[00:14:34] Peter King: When we are aligned, we are naturally brought together spiritually. Yeah, that's how I think about it. 

[00:14:41] Dimple Thakrar: Yeah. It's and I was listening to a podcast to a Instagram reel with Danny Morel, I think he's called. And he was talking actually about, what you just said the masculine and the feminine spiritually connect and that's what creates creation.

[00:14:57] Dimple Thakrar: That's the epitome of creation and not just in the physical, in the terms of babies, but in creating infinite potentials for both. In this realm of the quantum, infinite potentials, when there's that true polarity of the masculine and the feminine, it comes with ease and flow. 

[00:15:18] Peter King: Yes.

[00:15:18] Peter King: Yes. It's beautiful. I could talk. Yeah. 

[00:15:23] Dimple Thakrar: Just so many things coming through for you right now. Tell me, 

[00:15:26] Peter King: I feel like something. Yeah, I feel, to me, you talked about creation. To me, the divine masculine is best identified with the word truth. And to me, the divine feminine is best manifested by the word love.

[00:15:41] Peter King: And when you bring truth and love together, truth to me gives anchoring and backbone. And we're dealing with this a lot in our culture, in our society right now, where you see that, that theme that love trumps everything, love trumps, hate, love trumps everything. And I say yes, with the caveat of so long as truth is along for the ride.

[00:16:01] Peter King: And what we're seeing right now is an abandonment of truth in a lot of relationships and in society as a whole. And to me, that truth starts with the grounding, but it also gives direction. And right with love and only love feels all space. Love has no direction because love is. all space.

[00:16:21] Peter King: But when you think about conceptually the idea of truth, there's a boundary to truth. There's what's true and then there's what's not true. And if you bring, if you don't have that anchoring and that groundedness in that direction in love, then love can be chaotic. It can be all directions. It can be very subjective.

[00:16:41] Peter King: There is no right or wrong. You can be anything you want to be as long as you feel it, that there's something that needs to be honored there. But we also need to respect that there's also truth. And if you don't have the truth, then love turns into weakness and love can actually turn into. To very destructive chaos.

[00:17:00] Peter King: And when I say that, I'm saying that people can delude themselves to thinking that they're being guided by love and it can get to a very nasty place. It can be very manipulated. I think of it as like a balloon with no tethering. The masculine to me that's actually the name of my company, which I don't often talk about Legally is grounded freedom.

[00:17:19] Peter King: And the reason why it's called that is because that's the logo that I have is an anchor. With a little balloon and there's a little line on the balloon. To me, that's the masculine and the feminine. The masculine is anchoring and the feminine is like a balloon that's floating in the breeze and goes with the energy and it flows with the energy.

[00:17:39] Peter King: But there's that line between the two. And from the masculine, seeing the freedom of the feminine is so Attractive, energetically, spiritually, but also physically too. It's beautiful. It's sexy, and for the balloon that's looking to be free, it can't really be free unless it's tethered, unless it's anchored, because otherwise it's too scared.

[00:18:00] Peter King: You're constantly looking over your shoulder. Is this, am I okay? Am I safe? But when you have that grounding, you could be safe in that. So anyway. 

[00:18:09] Dimple Thakrar: I love that. And I love the way you speak about it. It's so powerful and so profound and I'll often say yeah, you can be in love with somebody and still leave them because there's not, there's no grounding to that.

[00:18:24] Dimple Thakrar: There's no, you can't rely on them. You can't trust that they will be there for you. You can still love them infinitely, and I see this so many times. I felt it in my marriage, when my man's been off. And I felt like I needed to be the one that grounded. And there is that to and fro at times, but also there's that piece on, where do you sit comfortably most of the time, right?

[00:18:51] Dimple Thakrar: And what do you want most of the time? I just, gosh, I could talk to you about this all day long. So what I'd love to understand, because I'm so curious and I know that the audience will be. What are the things that you do? And I know we're going into the doing now. I know we talk about the being but there is also some doing that needs to be done in order to maintain the grounding.

[00:19:16] Dimple Thakrar: So what are the things that you do on a regular basis to keep yourself grounded? and anchored in truth. 

[00:19:25] Peter King: I think something that's imperative in today's day and age is creating mental space, which is difficult for a lot of us. We're constantly inundated with information and distraction and schedules and needs, et cetera.

[00:19:41] Peter King: So creating that space for me to either have literal just silence. Sometimes I'll meditate. We're both students of Dr. Joe as well. So meditation has found its way into my practice. Not super I'm not regimented about it, but it's for a sort of needs based for me. So when I feel that anxiety or that feeling out of alignment to me, meditation is a great anchoring.

[00:20:06] Peter King: I also find that reaching out and connecting with others, Sometimes I'll get disconnected and that will be the source of my dis ease, if or my out of alignment connecting with others, working out for me is a tremendous grounding activity there's something about just getting the blood flowing and lifting weights that helps ground me as well, those are some of my Go to is to, yeah, some of it's nutritional too.

[00:20:31] Peter King: I'll realize, you know what, I haven't been taking care of myself. So I have a, I go through a series of things. It's nutrition. It's working out meditation and reaching out and connecting with others. 

[00:20:43] Dimple Thakrar: Amazing. And so when you say connecting with those others, is that women, men, does it matter? Is it like 

[00:20:51] Peter King: In general, it's, in general, it's both.

[00:20:54] Peter King: I have both men and women that I do call that are close friends of mine that just helps me get out of whatever is in my way at the moment. Sometimes it's just a need to connect. I can get, for me personally, I can get very heads down, focused on things and and as a result, I don't I also work out of the house.

[00:21:11] Peter King: So I have to make it intentional. But it's both. And sometimes it's deliberate with whatever it is that I'm dealing with. Sometimes I think men need to go to other men for to get that ground in us. I do advise, I actually had a whole conversation with people on line the other day about this, where they were saying that in a house, Proper healthy relationship, a man should be totally vulnerable and open up to his woman.

[00:21:34] Peter King: And I said, yes, but there's always that caveat. And to me, I think it takes a very mature relationship, a deeper bond to get to that point. But I often advise men, if you're not there at that point yet, that the best place to be really vulnerable is with other men because they'll recalibrate you there, and they know where you're at.

[00:21:54] Peter King: They know if you need to. Or if you need a, an arm around your shoulder, cause men need both. But that helps recalibrate and ground men that sometimes going to your significant other can be a little bit, it's like asking the captain to lead the ship and she doesn't know how to drive the ship yet.

[00:22:10] Peter King: So yeah, 

[00:22:12] Dimple Thakrar: that dynamic. I love that you brought that up because also from, certainly from my perspective and some of the women that I've worked with. They don't want to hear it, honestly, because it destabilizes them. Exactly. It literally destabilizes. I've said to my husband a few times, please, I'm here to support you.

[00:22:36] Dimple Thakrar: And there are times when I cannot take any more of it and I need you to find support in other places. Not because I don't care about you or don't love you, but simply because I'm letting you know that I need. To feel stable in this relationship and that destabilizes 

[00:22:55] Peter King: them. Yeah, the metaphor that I share with men often in that regard, because it's hard for men to connect to that because they're wanting that safe energetic, safe place to be able to say, I don't have it all together today, or I'm exhausted, or I don't know what to do or whatever it is, or I'm dealing with my own.

[00:23:14] Peter King: Shit, whatever that thing is and they think that they should be able to go to their significant other. And like I said, I, you can, so long as you've developed that deep grounding and that you're dealing with a woman who's done the work like yourself. But for most relationships today that hasn't occurred.

[00:23:30] Peter King: And to your point, I think a lot of women are saying, I have enough already. Like I'm needing to be grounded. I'm need. And so the metaphor that I say and share with men is. It's like being on the battlefield and you're in the foxhole and your commander, you look over your commander and bullets are flying overhead and your buddy just got shot next to you.

[00:23:52] Peter King: And you look to him and you say, what do we do? And he goes, I don't know. What do you think we should do? It's men can connect to that. They understand what they, at that moment in time, unless they've been a trained warrior, they can identify with that idea of, it's chaos around me. There's literal people dying around me.

[00:24:10] Peter King: I need direction. I need support. I need clarity and looking to you and you looking back to me going, I don't know what we should do or what do you think we should do? is not helping. So men identify with that. The light bulb goes off. They need to step into that leadership role and understand if you had a commander say to you at that point in time okay.

[00:24:29] Peter King: And you see him looking around going, okay, see that Hill right there. We're going to take that Hill. It doesn't necessarily mean that he knows exactly that's the perfect answer, but in that moment in time, there's clarity, direction, and confidence that we're going to go take that Hill. That's what's needed in the relationship at times, even when you're hurting men, even when you're a little bit frustrated and, or that's the time when you've set you, I, you pull yourself away to other men and say, I'd help me get some clarity.

[00:24:56] Peter King: Yes. Give me perspective. 

[00:24:57] Dimple Thakrar: Yeah. And I'm not saying that this happens for us all the time, but there are times when I do say I am destabilized. What I have come to learn as well is that in those moments, like you said, this beautiful metaphor where the man is saying, okay, we're going to take that hill and we're going to go with clarity and confidence that in itself, even if he isn't clear and confident, but he has that ability to lead in that moment is the expansion for him.

[00:25:24] Dimple Thakrar: Yes. Is actually the gift, right? Because the alternative is that the woman then goes into mothering. Yes. And that isn't great for anyone. 

[00:25:33] Peter King: No. At that moment. No, it 

[00:25:35] Dimple Thakrar: really isn't. It doesn't serve him. It doesn't serve her. Nobody expands. In terms of mothering, you end up with a little boy who goes to you for safety every time and has no expansion in him.

[00:25:47] Dimple Thakrar: Yep. Because it's safer to go to mother than it is To go to your men or to take leadership. And 

[00:25:54] Peter King: that's something men need to read. No. And men need to remember that there are those times where if we're being fully transparent, there are those times where that little boy in you desires, mothering desires, that unconditional love that only a mother really can give a boy or a man.

[00:26:12] Peter King: The only real unconditional love that we experience in life is from our mothers. And the, those. Those times growing up where we were imperfect, did something stupid, whatever, our mothers hopefully were the only ones that really were like, it's okay. You're going to be okay. I love you. And sometimes men go to their wives with that same need and you need to recognize what that need is and not go to her for that.

[00:26:39] Peter King: You don't want to be mothered, don't treat her like a mother. 

[00:26:42] Dimple Thakrar: Yes. And ladies, if you don't want a little boy, don't mother. Yep. It's just as simple as that, right? Yes. Because actually my husband, when I've been honest, he's not necessarily liked it in the moment, but he's appreciated my truth and he's appreciated my honesty.

[00:27:00] Dimple Thakrar: And it's meant that I've been super vulnerable with him and it gives him an opportunity to. Grow in that expansion and also to support me because I'm asking for help, in that moment, I'm saying I don't have all my shit together in that moment, right? Yes. 

[00:27:18] Peter King: I need your leadership. Men love that, by the way.

[00:27:21] Peter King: Men appreciate when a woman can say, help me give me, I'm feeling unstable, to a man that's grounded, to a man that's done his work. That's a real opening. That's a real like. Oh, I can serve you here. It's very clear. And that's very helpful for men. So ladies, if you're, I hear that from women sometimes that they don't want to do that, that they've been, tricked into thinking that they have to always have their shit together.

[00:27:44] Peter King: In a healthy relationship, the masculine likes to help you get anchored. So it's nice when you're untethered a little bit and needing that love and support. 

[00:27:55] Dimple Thakrar: Oh, yeah. And yeah, I love hearing that from you actually, Peter. It really reassures me because it's really vulnerable for a woman to ask for help.

[00:28:05] Dimple Thakrar: Especially in this day and age, it's really a big step to ask for help. Thank you for sharing that. It's been a wonderful conversation as always. Thank you so much for coming on and before we complete I would love for you to just share where The audience find you, Peter. Where can they connect with you?

[00:28:27] Dimple Thakrar: If they want to work with you or understand your work more? Sure. 

[00:28:32] Peter King: Two primary places. My website is impactnow. com. You can find me on there. There's a work with me menu option that you can select. You can also find me on most. Podcast platforms. My podcast, again, is Wired for Impact. You can find me on Instagram at Wired for Impact as well.

[00:28:51] Dimple Thakrar: I love that. Thank you. Please go check out Peter's. Podcast. Oh my God. Just genius. 

[00:28:58] Peter King: Especially the episodes with Dimple. We have, yeah, we've had some great conversations. 

[00:29:04] Dimple Thakrar: So my final question that I ask all my beautiful privileged and honored and privileged to have you guests is. If you could give somebody one piece of advice that goes beyond the words, what would it be?

[00:29:21] Peter King: I always go back to awareness. That's how I'm wired. And oftentimes the answer's within. And we are so conditioned to seek outside of us for answers. The answer is always within.

[00:29:37] Peter King: Thank you. 

[00:29:38] Dimple Thakrar: The answer's always within. And I love how you lived by that. You demonstrated that with the story you shared. You asked everybody else, and then you listened to the answer within. Yes. Thank you. What a gift and a privilege to have you today, 

[00:29:53] Peter King: Peter. I feel honored. Thank you, Dimple.

[00:29:56] Dimple Thakrar: My pleasure. Without further ado, this was another incredible episode of Beyond the Words. It's an honor and privilege to serve you today. Have the most incredible day and God bless.

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Dimple Thakrar

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Jo Day

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Peter King

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